K Squared + 1

Time To Get Personal

2012-01-21T06:06:00.000-08:00

This (sorry excuse for a) blog was created for the sole purpose of documenting every precious moment of Haley's life. Two and a half year later, this blog has fallen off the rails in terms of updates. Haley is still precious and adorable and loads of fun...she is the single greatest achievement of my life. However, in the two and a half years since her birth, a second achievement has been in the works (no, not another baby) - me.

(It's true...it really works!)

I've been on and off Weight Watchers for approximately 11 years; ouch. When I first joined, with the loving support and encouragement of Mom, I did well and lost weight. A typical college student I then proceeded to follow the plan on my own...and did not succeed. Next started a cycle of half-hearted joinings and dropping outs, all without any real success. When I got pregnant with Haley, I was already unhappy with my weight - adding pregnancy to mix freaked me out. I was conscience of my eating habits and was able to get my weight gain to 25ish pounds. However, that added to my already overweight frame was not a good look, nor good for my health.

Haley was born in August and I asked for a Weight Watchers subscription for my September birthday; my generous parents obliged. I'm happy to report that I am closing in on my goal and to-date have lost 60 pounds! I am beyond proud of myself - this has not been easy, but through out the past two years I have stuck it out rather than quit. I've asked myself why and have a theory.

This time, the desire for weight loss isn't about vanity...that's a lie, it is to a small degree. But moreso, it's about being the best version of myself for my family, friends, coworkers, dogs...everyone. The people I love most in my life (husband, kiddo, parents, sibling) deserve more than an unhappy, unhealth, overweight me - and they're finally getting it. I couldn't be more excited!

2011 Rewind

2012-01-01T11:37:00.000-08:00

2011, a year full of stuff...vague, eh? For better or worse, 2011 was good to our little family of 3. Full of life lessons and love and fun. Christmas was no exception. Haley Bug was excited about Santa Claus and had a long wish list, which included a hula hoop, pink soccer ball, pink car, roller skates, books, and a computer. (Really, our two year old asked for a computer...and money - that's another story.) Haley's wishes came true with most of her wish list fulfilled. It was pure sweetness to watch her pass out presents and open her own. Having a little one really does put magic back in to Christmas.

Our little family of three is looking forward to seeing what 2012 will bring!

The Christmas Story (HD version)

2011-12-24T12:34:00.001-08:00

Amazing video!

Merry Christmas!

2011-12-24T12:34:00.000-08:00

Wishing everyone a blessed 2012!

Cousins

2011-09-26T17:51:00.000-07:00

I've been organizing photos and came across these; Haley meeting her baby cousin Izzy. Both girls have changed so much in the last 6 months!

Haley is unabashedly in love with Charlie and Izzy. She asks about playing with them no less than 10 times a day. It's fun to watch Haley and Charlie race around at top speed and wrestle each other. In fact, someone asked us if they were twins recently!

Haley's baby doll is appropriately named, Izzy. First order of business each morning is to feed Izzy - baby doll Izzy is placed in the highchair and 'fed' with a baby spoon. It's fun to imagine this threesome grow up together.

Best. Cake. Ever.

2011-09-20T18:22:00.000-07:00

I rang in another year surrounded by family and friends; stretching my birthday from one day into a multiple day celebration. Lucky me! Saturday night’s celebration was loud and chaotic, thanks to Haley and Charlie...our “twin” two year olds. Cousins just 6 months apart, they race around with enough energy to power a space shuttle. Sweet baby Izzy watched wide eyed at the pandemonium laughing and smiling at her brother and cousin’s antics. All too soon, Izzy will be joining the fray.

The celebration was capped off with a legendary chocolate cake. My sister-in-law Paige has made this cake synonymous with birthdays in our household. Even my uber-health minded, anti-dessert, brother has requested this cake three years running. It is that good. Rich chocolate with undertones of coffee - in a word this cake is decadent.

As a loyal Weight Watcher member, I generally am careful if not OCD about counting my points. I couldn’t bear to calculate the points in a piece of this cake. It was my birthday, and everyone knows calories don’t count on birthdays.

Beatty’s Chocolate Cake

Courtesy of Ina Garten

Butter, for greasing the pans

1 3/4 cups all-purpose flour, plus more for pans
2 cups sugar
3/4 cups good cocoa powder
2 teaspoons baking soda
1 teaspoon baking powder
1 teaspoon kosher salt
1 cup buttermilk, shaken
1/2 cup vegetable oil
2 extra-large eggs, at room temperature
1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
1 cup freshly brewed hot coffee
Chocolate Buttercream, recipe follows

Directions

Preheat the oven to 350 degrees F. Butter two 8-inch x 2-inch round cake pans. Line with parchment paper, then butter and flour the pans.

Sift the flour, sugar, cocoa, baking soda, baking powder, and salt into the bowl of an electric mixer fitted with a paddle attachment and mix on low speed until combined. In another bowl, combine the buttermilk, oil, eggs, and vanilla. With the mixer on low speed, slowly add the wet ingredients to the dry. With mixer still on low, add the coffee and stir just to combine, scraping the bottom of the bowl with a rubber spatula. Pour the batter into the prepared pans and bake for 35 to 40 minutes, until a cake tester comes out clean. Cool in the pans for 30 minutes, then turn them out onto a cooling rack and cool completely.

Place 1 layer, flat side up, on a flat plate or cake pedestal. With a knife or offset spatula, spread the top with frosting. Place the second layer on top, rounded side up, and spread the frosting evenly on the top and sides of the cake.

Chocolate Buttercream:

6 ounces good semisweet chocolate
1/2 pound (2 sticks) unsalted butter, at room temperature
1 extra-large egg yolk, at room temperature
1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
1 1/4 cups sifted confectioners' sugar
1 tablespoon instant coffee powder

Chop the chocolate and place it in a heat-proof bowl set over a pan of simmering water. Stir until just melted and set aside until cooled to room temperature.

In the bowl of an electric mixer fitted with a paddle attachment, beat the butter on medium-high speed until light yellow and fluffy, about 3 minutes. Add the egg yolk and vanilla and continue beating for 3 minutes. Turn the mixer to low, gradually add the confectioners' sugar, then beat at medium speed, scraping down the bowl as necessary, until smooth and creamy. Dissolve the coffee powder in 2 teaspoons of the hottest tap water. On low speed, add the chocolate and coffee to the butter mixture and mix until blended. Spread immediately on the cooled cake.

We're Back? We're Back!

2011-09-17T13:49:00.000-07:00

Bug has changed so much in the few months since I last wrote...

She turned 2!

But, so much has stayed the same...

Still in a full-on Elmo/Sesame Street addiction.

Our girl surprises us daily with her sweetness and challenges us equally with her tenacity and spunk. Haley had a great Summer full of warm evenings outside and afternoons at the pool. She is quite a water bug! We're looking forward to Fall and hope to enjoy some apple picking soon...I imagine we'll have to pluck Haley from more than one tree :O)

Bumble Bee

2011-05-10T15:15:00.000-07:00

Long Overdue

2011-05-10T15:02:00.000-07:00

Oy, I'm a bad blogger...I failed to keep my promise of more updates. Certainly not intentional, but I'm struggling with the working mom craziness. Karl and I get to spend all of 3 hours a day with Haley Monday - Friday, I just can't bear the thought of spending time on the computer vs. spending time with Bug. I will find time - updates will become more frequent...pinky swear!

Miss Haley is quite the mover and shaker these days! At 20 months (ack!) she is...
*Talking up a storm - new words every day.
*Super independent and wants to do things herself - "Mama, I walk!" - is a favorite phrase. Thankfully for Mama's heart, Haley wants to hold my hand while she walks in to daycare/stores/home.
*Quite the singer - The Itsy Bitsy Spider and Rock'a Bye Baby have been added to her repertoire. Happy Birthday is still a fan favorite - in fact, I had the best start to Mother's Day possible. I heard Bug squirming in her room and before going in, I heard at least 3 rounds of Happy Birthday. So sweet!
*Very in to dolls and babies. She recently named her baby doll Izzy after her new cousin. We need to work on our babysitting skills - baby doll Izzy is often carted through the house by an arm or leg.

(Mother's Day 2011)

We're all looking forward to Summer. I imagine we'll spend a lot of time at the pool, playing outside, and at Deanna Rose. Pictures will be forthcoming...promise!

Wink, Wink

2011-02-28T17:24:00.000-08:00

Haley learned to wink, which is really more of a double squint.

And in other news, Haley is a part-time (full-time, if we allowed it) nudist and Elmo afficianado. Here she is waiting "patiently" for an Elmo video.

I Haven't Forgotten About You

2011-02-03T18:45:00.000-08:00

So, it's been awhile since I last posted on my blog...Halloween. Yikes. Is it too late to make a resolution to be better about posting?

Haley is awesome as always - here's some photographic evidence. Her first 'official' haircut! Karl took care of the mullet a few months ago, but Grandma Nancy decided the Bug needed a big girl haircut. Very cute!

At 18 months Haley is talking up a storm - each day she says something new. It's hard to believe our girl is 1 and a half!

Halloween With Ladybug & Elmo

2010-11-04T11:47:00.000-07:00

We celebrated Halloween in style - with a ladybug and Elmo (or Melmo, if you're under 2). Ryan, Paige, Charlie, Pete, Nancy, Mom and Dad came over for a chili feast and trick or treating. The kids had a ball playing together!

Trick or treating was a wild success! Charlie handled like a pro and reaped the delicious candy rewards. Haley wasn't as confident in her new found begging skills, but loved watching the other kiddos. Both Haley and Charlie received tons of compliments, as they were the cutest Elmo and Ladybug in town.

Daddy Daughter Date

2010-11-02T13:18:00.000-07:00

Fall Down Tree is an artist I discovered via a friend and think his work is just amazing. Fun, creative and whimsical - perfect for a kid's room. This picture is going to need to find a home in Haley's room and soon. It's titled Daddy Daughter Date. The baby girl monkey has a face just like Bug's, especially when she sees her daddy.

The Wiggliest Witch

2010-10-29T08:05:00.000-07:00

Our resident witch doesn't ride a broomstick, but instead carries toothbrushes. She also bounces around the house so quickly Mama Witch cannot get a clear picture!

A Dentist's Dream

2010-10-29T08:02:00.000-07:00

Double fisting the toothbrushes. Clearly, we are big on dental hygiene in our house!

Haley's Big Girl Room

2010-10-27T12:42:00.000-07:00

We're probably at least a year away from transitioning Haley to her Big Girl room, but I've already started scheming. I find inspiration in a variety of places - namely the internet and magazines. I'm a big believer in DIY, so there is plenty on our future To-Do list; including building some furniture.

When Haley was born my office gifted us with a really awesome mini duvet from Land of Nod and it's the centerpiece for my room design. I have no idea who in the office is responsible for selecting baby gifts, but they hit a home run - the colors are fantastic!

We already own the polka dot chair and mini toy box, both in a soft green. The artwork is a combo of DIY and Etsy purchases. I have a looooong list (and continuing to grow) of favorite Etsy vendors and could very easily plaster every wall in my home with unique, personalized art. I adore the idea of a wall full of different pieces of artwork - needlepoint, photography, prints, etc. Haley already has several pieces of art in her current room that will most definitely make the transition to her 'new' room.

As for the furniture building - there is an amazing website (ana-white.com) with free carpentry plans. The pieces are reproductions from Pottery Barn, West Elm and Crate and Barrel. Even better, the plans are easy! I think Karl and I can handle a bookshelf and a daybed...

Even though Haley is young, I don't want her room to feel too infantile. I'm seeking the perfect mix of little girl and eclectic and unique and homey...something she can grow in to.

Dinner With My Friend

2010-10-25T07:38:00.000-07:00

While getting dinner ready the other night, Haley toddled off to her room. A moment later she returned with Baby Huggums in her arms. So, Baby Huggums joined us for dinner, but not dessert. Haley's messy enough for one!

A Morning With Haley

2010-10-25T07:34:00.000-07:00

Hello, Blog Readers - It's me Haley. Mom's been slacking on the blog...again. Ugh. I'm taking over and wanted to show you some pictures of me and my cuteness.

Mom dressed me (I look CUTE in black and red) and I'm heading downstairs to play with my toys. I like to ease into my day with some moo juice, Handy Manny and toys before heading to daycare.

Chillin' in my chair. I like to climb off and on...and then jump into Mom or Dad's arms. It's fun!

I'm standing on my chair and Mom's telling me something about putting my tushy down. Not sure what that's about. Standing on chairs and climbing things is my new passion.

Whatchu talkin' bout? I'm calling Grammy and Boppa or maybe Charlie or maybe Australia. I just like to push the buttons.

That's all for now, but I'll be back later with more.

Hugs,

Haley

Make It Work!

2010-10-07T06:26:00.000-07:00

Haley decided to channel Tim Gunn this morning and is Making It Work in a sassy new outfit from Aunt Keri. She was feeling fierce in her sparkly grey top and houndstooth pants. As soon as the camera came out she started to pose. I can only imagine what this girl will be like at 16...yikes.

Random Cuteness

2010-09-17T08:10:00.000-07:00

A few weekends ago we attended the Paola Roots Festival. It's a long standing blues festival in Paola, on their town square. It's family friendly and a good time! Last year we took Haley when she was a wee nugget - just a few weeks old. She snoozed the entire time, this year she wanted to dance!

I thought seriously about putting her on stage to impress the audience with her sweet moves and vocal stylings. Karl said no.

We've been working hard to teach Haley how to go down the steps. She can motor up a flight of stairs without any hesitation, but going down was trickier. It finally clicked and she can get up and down stairs and furniture like a champ. It's entertaining to watch - she looks something like a crab. Very cute!

It's Genetic

2010-09-17T08:04:00.000-07:00

Karl's greatest love in life (other than me and Haley) is the vacuum. He genuinely enjoys vacuuming, which I find so weird. I'm glad he likes the task, but why and how is beyond me. It must be genetic because Haley shares his love of the vacuum. The noise soothed her to sleep many nights. She squeals with delight whenever Daddy vacuums. And now, she hugs the vacuum. What has the world come to?

The Many Faces of Haley

2010-09-07T09:24:00.000-07:00

Haley has recently adopted a very serious look, complete with wrinkled eyebrows. It's what we refer to as her "don't mess with me" face.

Don't drink and drive. Haley crumples into a ball whenever she snoozes in the car...it looks uncomfortable, but she's never minded.

Typical, happy baby girl. (Totally agree with her shirt...her dad is totally awesome!)

Life IS Good

2010-09-02T07:28:00.000-07:00

The Bug has decided to start walking. What?! Who told her that she could use those chubby legs for anything other than letting Mama squeeze on them? Video evidence of her new found mobility to come.

KSquared in the Kitchen: Chocolate Chip Pumpkin Cookies

2010-08-31T11:56:00.000-07:00

I love each of the four seasons for their unique sense of style.

Spring breaths new life into everyone and everything - flowers, green grass, warming breezes are all welcome after a cold winter. Summer is full of adventure - backyard barbeques, long dusky evenings, kids playing outside and cicadas providing the soundtrack. Winter gives me a feeling of nostalgia - we slow down, burrow under quilts, snuggle in front of fires, spend time with our families and eat comforting foods. Fall...my personal favorite. Fall is the shy, modest sister. Spring, Summer and Winter are outgoing with their wild temperates and suprising storms. Fall is calm, she is soothing, she is predictable. Fall and I are good friends - she brings me crisp evenings, Halloween, hues of orange and deep reds. She encourages me to eat soup and wear my favorite worn out jeans. Most imporantly, Fall brings me apples fresh from the local orchard and pumpkins straight from the farm.

I love all things pumpkin. Sweet or savory, I do not discriminate. This recipe is as easy as it delicious.

Chocolate Chip Pumpkin Cookies

1 box spice cake mix
1 15 oz can pumpkin puree
1 bag mini chocolate chips

Preheat your oven to 350. Mix the three ingredients and drop by the teaspoon on a lighly greased cookie sheet. Bake for 12-15 minutes. Makes approximately 42 cookies.

A Case Of The Mondays

2010-08-30T10:08:00.000-07:00

I'm having a case of the Mondays. No particular reason...maybe a million inconveniences, but nothing terribly unusual. I decided that whenever I was in a funk I should list 10 reasons that today is a good day. Here we go...

1) Sandwich with a homegrown tomato. Yum.
2) Getting to work to find a cute email from the husband
3) Being married to The Husband
4) Being mom to The Bug
5) Two furry love balls - Barley & Chloe
6) Newly improved vision (Lasik rocks!)
7) Friends who understand life's frustrations
8) Hugs (and free dinner) from Mom & Dad
9) The knowledge that this too shall pass...whatever 'this' might be
10) God's grace

Whew, that does help. So does looking at cute pictures. Muuuuuuch better!

Haley vs. Barley: Throwdown In The Octagon

2010-08-26T10:05:00.000-07:00

This morning, Haley is sitting on my lap enjoying a bowl of Cheerios. An all-American, classic breakfast. And, our new morning routine.

Baby Girl is enthusiastically munching on her breakfast cereal when Barley The Wonderhound approaches. To Barley's delight, Haley's bowl of Cheerios is at snout level. To Haley's chagrin, Barley attempts to snarf some Cheerios. Not off the floor and not out of the bowl but off of the spoon. (Full disclosure, our dogs are spoiled. They were our first 'kids'. We occassionally give our dogs people food, they are allowed on the downstairs couches, and they sleep in our bed. But we have never, NEVER spoon fed either of the dogs.)

I was trying to shoo Barley away while balancing Haley on my lap and a bowl of Cheerios in my hand. Haley decided to take matters in to her own hands and took a few swings at Barley's snount. He was not detered and came in again, goobery Basset Hound mouth dangerously close to her spoon. I could forsee disaster. Haley lunged towards him, and he retreated. She took an extra big bite of Cheerios and said "mmmmmm", just to rub it in his face. I think this is only round one of many more breakfast brawls to come. The gauntlet has been thrown.

Haley - 1. Barley - 0.

Cuteness Personified

2010-08-24T12:41:00.001-07:00

Taken at the Overland Park Arboreteum, August 2010.

Ever Had One Of Those Days?

2010-08-23T10:29:00.001-07:00

Ever had one of those days (mornings, afternoons, evenings, anytimes) when you question your ability to be a good mom? Mine arrived this morning, neatly gift wrapped in the form of a newly minted one year old and a tantrum of epic proportions. Arched back, gritted teeth and wailing that sounded like it should come from a wild animal. I powered through and managed to get her dressed, fed and cleaned up all done with maximum effort. Back and forth this dance went, all morning long. Small hands came flying towards my face and hair. Body, willing itself from my arms. Sippy cup was chucked at me and my baby girl laid herself on the ground and cried for no apparant reason other than it was Monday morning.

Meanwhile, I'm breaking out in a sweat trying to remain calm on the outside. An internal dialogue sounded something like this, "You're an adult and she's a child. Keep it together. Don't lose it. This is normal, all kids do this. She's just a baby." Deep yoga breaths kept me going and before long, there was quiet. I look and see angry, fat tears rolling down her chubby cheeks. Her arms outstreched and her small body lunging towards me, accompanied by a plaintive "mama". I reached down and picked her up - she placed her head on my shoulder and sighed. It was over.

Maybe I'm not such a bad mom afterall.

Month 12

2010-08-12T09:08:00.000-07:00

August 5, 2010

Dear Haley,

Happy, happy, happiest of birthdays! I am amazed that you’re one already - this first year has been incredible and amazing and completely wonderful - all because of you. You’re arrival on the scene has changed the dynamic of our family of 2 to a great big 3 (or 5 if you want to include the dogs). And you’ve changed our family in the best possible ways. Daddy and I are over the moon for you!

I have loved each stage, each month of your first year of life for different reasons. Each one has been my favorite. The whole first year is all about falling in love over and over again. The newness of having a baby (She’s ours! We made her!) is overwhelming. It’s like Christmas each and every day. Then bits and pieces of your personality start to peek through. Then the baby chub arrives. Soon we had smiles and chuckles. Then came mobility - first with rolling over and wiggling, then with scooting which turned into crawling. Now we’re standing up - you’re still thinking about taking those first steps. You’ve made noises from the beginning - squeaky at first, then a jazzy alto of babbles, now you’re full of chatter. Daddy and I love how expressive you are - already full of opinions on important matters like food and music.

I look back at pictures from August 5, 2009 and can still so vividly remember first meeting you. I remember hearing you cry and the wave of emotions that came over me. I knew I would love you from the start, but I was unprepared for the depth of that love. My heart beats for you little lady bug.

Thank you for making our first year together so memorable and so much fun. I can’t wait to see what this next year has in store for us.

You are the sun, the moon and the stars in my sky.

Love,
Mama

Happy Birthday To Me!

2010-08-05T10:43:00.001-07:00

I'm one today! I'm pretty excited about this milestone -I heard something about eating cake and getting presents. Sign me up! Mama said I have three parties; one at daycare, a mini party tonight and a BIG party on Saturday. Yahoo!

p.s. Happy Birthday to Barley the Wonderhound! He's 4 years young.

Months 10 & 11

2010-07-21T11:01:00.001-07:00

July 5, 2010

Dear Haley,

Consider this letter a combo of months 10 and 11. These last few months have been melancholy for me - your baby-ness is starting to soften at the edges and bits of your little girl self is starting to appear. I’m aghast that you’ll be one in a few short weeks.

You make Daddy and I laugh; you have conversations with us (yourself, anyone that will listen) but said in babbles of m, g, d, l and b sounds. You show such emotion, such expression - there are a lot of things you want to tell us. We can’t wait to hear all the stories you’re going to share with us. In the meantime we’re hanging on to every bit of your baby girl blabber.

In the last few weeks you’ve started pulling up and it’s clear you have no fear. You are ready to move on to the next thing - you so want to be racing around with other kids. I watched as you pulled yourself into a standing position, so proud, and let your hands go but for a split second. A moment later you so very gently sat yourself down. You are daring and delicate all at the same time.

You are a social butterfly! Taking you shopping is an adventure - your squeaks and screeches (I think you’re saying ‘hi’) can be heard throughout the store. You flash a smile of pure joy, showing off your 8 teeth and furiously waving your chubby hand back and forth. Meanwhile, your plump legs are kicking back and forth. I dare anyone to try and not smile when you wave at them.

I’m working on your first birthday party. I want so much for you Bug, most of which can’t be purchased in a toy store. More than anything else, I want you to know how much I love you.

You are the sun, the moon and stars in my sky.

Love,
Mama

Morning Routine

2010-07-21T07:40:00.000-07:00

The morning routine in the Schweigel House is funny business. Karl leaves for work at o'dark thirty so I get to wrangle Bug before we pack up for daycare. It's chaotic to say the least - crazy baby + two crazy hounds = instanity. My coffee consumption has decreased significantly, all the running around replaces caffiene.

A glimpse into our morning...

Settling in for some moo juice and PBS kids. Nothing beats a relaxing morning!

Doll? Check. Bottle? Check. I'm a big girl!

Rawr! I'm coming to get you! Wait, where's my bottle? And doll? Why are there dogs licking me...make them stop!!

Dressed and parked in the highchair. Mom's dancing and singing while she makes her lunch...she's weird.

Late, Late For A Very Important Date (or Blog Post)

2010-07-09T12:56:00.000-07:00

Hi, Folks - It's Haley here. I do not know what my mom's deal is...she hasn't posted anything since Mother's Day! Not a single cute picture of me or descriptions of all the cute things I'm doing and working on. Nada, nothing, zip. I feel jipped. Let me fill you in...

The biggest news is that I have been on the move in the last few weeks. Literally! I can crawl with the best of them. To put a cherry on top, I can even pull up by myself! I've explored the stairs and really like to race to the top (the dog bowl sits up there - so fun!).

Mom has failed to detail my vocal stylings. I love, love, love to talk! To anyone...about anything! I have a lot to say and people need to listen up! Not only do I have a lot to say, but I've decided to be the princess of the waving comittee. If I wave at you (and I will) I expect to you to wave back. Some people in the grocery store (usually the dudes) do not wave back and it makes me screech and squeal loudly. I will get your attention!

I've sprouted several more teeth...growing those is no fun, but I like to eat all kinds of grown up foods. My favorites are mushrooms and cheese and fruit.

Charlie and I have gone swimming several times - we really like to splash! Charlie likes to try to dunk me. But, he gives really good hugs which makes up for the attempted drownings.

I helped Dad, Papa and Grandpa celebrate Father's Day. Mom helped me pick out a tree for Dad. It's really pretty and planted in our backyard.

That's all the news from my corner of the world. I'll make sure Mom gets back to blogging about me.

Love,

Haley

Mother's Day

2010-05-10T07:38:00.000-07:00

My first official Mother's Day (last year Haley resided in my tummy) was wonderful! We watched Charlie get baptised and enjoyed a lovely brunch with the Manies and Geiger families. Haley thoroughly enjoyed her time in childcare at church. We heard she bopped and danced to music and even tried her hand at the guitar.

Karl, Haley and I headed to the Schweigel house late in the afternoon. The gals were treated to an awesome dinner prepared by Chef Karl and Chef Pete. It was yummy! Haley even got in on the action and went crazy with a roll (she growled when we tried to take it away - yikes).

Thank you sweet Haley Bug for making the day so special. I'm so glad I get to be your mommy.

Month 9

2010-05-07T12:06:00.001-07:00

May 5, 2010

Dear Haley,

At 9 months old you’ve officially been on the ‘outside’ longer than you were on the ‘inside.’ It seems like such an impossibility you’re closing the gap on one year of age.

You are starting to assert so much independence - wanting to feed yourself, wanting to hold your bottle, wanting to scoot about and explore. On one hand, I adore watching you discover your world and testing its limits. On the other hand, it pangs my heart just the tiniest bit, I know that these milestones are just the beginning.

You’re on the verge of crawling - you can scoot yourself in a circle and backwards, like a little crab. You’ve mastered the front half, pushing up with your arms. The back end needs a bit of work, you kick your chubby legs with all your might - you remind me of a little fish.

You recognize Daddy and me and quickly get upset when we leave the room. You reach for us - arms outstretched wide and grunt, asking to be picked up and held. We adore this and know you won’t always feel so strongly about wanting our presence.

You’re a chatterbox. You wake up talking to your dolls and yourself and go to bed the same way. Each morning you chat with the dogs while enjoying breakfast and then continue to conversation with me on the way to daycare. Your voice goes between raspy and deep (like a jazz singer) to high and squeeky. Either way, it’s music to my ears.

You’re a little daredevil; Daddy has already declared that you’ll love rollercoasters. You squeal with delight when he tosses you high in the air or flies you around like an airplane. I think you love it because you know he’ll always catch you safely.

Your hair has started to sprout, but the sides stick up and out. It reminds me of dandelion fluff and fuzzy ducklings. I love to smell your head - the perfect combination of baby shampoo, lotion and pure sweet baby girl.

You’ve become a mini gourmet, shunning my homemade baby food for bites of whatever Daddy and I are eating. You’re a voracious eater - there isn’t anything you haven’t liked. Although you are Daddy’s mini-me in the looks department, you have inherited my sweet tooth. Small tastes of popsicles and ice cream elicit mmmmmmmmms and you open your mouth wide, baby bird style, for more.

I’m so excited to see what this summer brings; chubby baby thighs sticking out of your two-piece, popsicles running down your chin, trips to the zoo to see the animals, backyard barbeques with your first taste of smores, baby piggies in the grass, and lots of trips to the park. You’re such a fun, happy little girl Haley and I love each and every moment spent with you. Thanks for picking me to be your mom, I am so lucky.

You are the sun, the moon and the stars in my sky.

Love always,
Mama

Zoom!

2010-05-05T10:10:00.000-07:00

Our sweet girl is nine months old today. She's officially been on the outside longer than she was on the inside.

Her picture is blurry...she's so wiggly these days. But, it's also appropriate because I swear, yesterday I was still pregnant with her. These days are zooming by all too quickly.

The Shirt Says It All

2010-04-29T08:01:00.000-07:00

Slippery Fish

2010-04-29T07:47:00.001-07:00

Haley has graduated from the tub seat and now takes 'big girl' baths. For months I've lamented about the lack of splashing in the tub. I regret saying that. Haley can and loves to splash - she's soaked me, the dogs and the bathroom walls. We can't wait to take her to the pool this summer, she's a water loving baby!

p.s. Our tub is quite clean and doesn't have a yellow tinge to it. Our camera leaves something to be desired.

Breakfast For Dinner

2010-04-29T07:41:00.000-07:00

I had a craving for breakfast for dinner last night, so waffles were made. Haley enjoyed her first waffle and an egg yolk veggie omelet (it looked and smelled tasty!). She LOVED the waffle...fistfulls in the mouth at a time, syrup in the hair. Unlike her daddy, she clearly loves breakfast foods. Yum!

What's the big deal about waffles? Sounds weird.

Mmmmm, these are good!

More waffles! Faster!

Month 8

2010-04-06T11:31:00.001-07:00

April 5, 2009

Dearest Lady Bug,

You turned 8 months old today; how is it possible I didn’t know you 8 months and 1 day ago? You and me, we’re linked for life.

You’ve started clapping this month and it’s absolutely adorable. You clap for everyone, including yourself. You’ve also started to try to talk - the babbling continues, but I’ve heard some mamamamama’s in there too. I’m not sure you know that I’m mama, but I like to think you do.

You continue to be the happiest girl on the block. I love coming into your room in the mornings and seeing your sweet face. You’re still a little sleepy, but happy and smiling (and talking) and ready for the day. I love starting my day with you - you are better than any cup of coffee.

Daddy and I think you’re going to be a rock star or a dancer. You light up when music is on (you currently love Blues and Stevie Wonder) and start to groove, bouncing side to side. Being able to make you dance is your dad’s new favorite pastime.

The weather’s been warmer, so you and I have been going on long walks through our neighborhood. On Saturday, we discovered a ‘secret’ trail that wound back through some old fields - it was an adventure! Every single day with you is an adventure - an adventure in love, patience, and creativity. I hope you keep a sense of adventure throughout your life...find out what your city and your world have to offer. Daddy and I know you’re bound for greatness.

You are the sun, the moon and the stars in my sky.

Love always,
Mama

Happy Easter

2010-04-05T08:38:00.000-07:00

We enjoyed a lovely Easter with family. Charlie showed off his awesome new walking skills while Haley grooved along with her singing/dancing duck!

Taking A Stroll

2010-04-05T08:37:00.000-07:00

Baby Bjorn/Beluga

2010-04-05T08:33:00.000-07:00

Haley loves being in the Bjorn, but is pushing the weight limit to the max (the chunky thighs are getting squeezed!). I wanted to photograph one of our last times in the Bjorn before officially retiring it. Karl and Haley suit up on Saturday mornings and vacuum the house together. Haley's happy squeals could be heard throughout the house. She's her father's daughter, already loving the vacuum.

For Papa Manies

2010-04-05T08:29:00.000-07:00

Poor Papa, he's been feeling left out. There are a variety of 'I love Mommy, Daddy, Grandma' items on the market, but fewer for Grandpa. Looky what I found at Target...

It's true! Haley is a daddy's/grandpa's girl through and through! Love you Papa!

Trying To Figure It Out

2010-03-24T06:59:00.000-07:00

Hello Blog, Haley here. Mom gave me some crazy thing this morning and expected me to play with it...what was she thinking? Turns out, it's fun! Here I am meeting my new friend for the first time.

This is my thinking face, I'm trying to figure out what in the world this thing is.

Uh oh, my new friend is just out of my reach. I'm going to lean waaaaay over here and give Mom a heart attack.

This thing is awesome! My friend makes noise, I love noise! I'm really noisey or so Mom and Dad say.

Please don't take it away Mom, I'm having fun!

This is just me, looking cute.

See you later alligators!

Love,
Haley

Friday Cuteness

2010-03-12T06:37:00.000-08:00

Some pictures to amp up your Friday cute quotient.

Month 7

2010-03-11T11:00:00.000-08:00

March 5, 2010

Dear Haley,

Seven months...how is possible you are seven months old already? Before you were born there were times I would wish for time to speed up. I wanted to be older, I wanted it to be Summer, and I wanted Christmas to come early. Now that you’re in my life I want to slow all the watches and clocks in the world. I want to bottle up your babyhood and carry it with me forever. I so wish I could spend the days with you, I feel like I’m missing out on so much.

I swear that the world changed colors for you now that you can sit up. You watch everything and everyone, soaking it all in. It's so fun to watch your mind work; I wonder what you think of things. But you also interact with people; I don’t think you’ve ever met a stranger! Random people in the store or mall are squawked at and then given a big smile, showing off your two new teeth.

You bring such unimaginable joy to our lives, Haley Bug. Daddy and I love to love on you! Your cheeks are so kissable and your chubby baby thighs are so squeezable. Tickles and belly raspberries make you smile and laugh. Your dad and I will do anything and everything to make you laugh. I think second to hearing your first cry, your laugh is one of my all time favorite sounds. Coming in at a close third are your babbles.

I hope you always keep your sweetness and continue to find the humor and joy in everyday life.

You are the sun, the moon and the stars in my sky.

Love,
Mama

Month 6

2010-02-17T08:05:00.000-08:00

February 10, 2010

Dear Haley,

I’ll start with an apology - your letter is late this month. I couldn’t think of what to write you this month; other than I am totally and completely more in love with you this month than last. (But, I feel that way each month, each week, each day, each minute...)

You turned 6 months old on the 5th. You’re getting to be such a big girl - it amazes your daddy and me each and every day. You roll over and sit up and try to stand up. You dance and wiggle and splash in the tub. You babble and laugh and smile. You hug and snuggle and squeal and squeak. You have the ability to make everyone in a room smile and fall in love with you (this could be bad news for your dad and me when you hit teenage years).

I realized something profound this month - with your help, I get to be a kid again too...kind of. A grown up kid, I suppose. We made Valentine cards and pink cookies for your friends at daycare. With each little paper heart I cut out, I thought of my two favorite Valentines - you and your daddy. You two have moved into my heart and built a high-rise, a city, an entire country. My heart belongs to the two of you.

You are the sweetest little girl we ever could have hoped for. You exceed our expectations in every way. We love you and can’t wait to see what the next six months bring us.

You are the sun, the moon and the stars in my sky.

Love,
Mama

Guess Who's 6 Months Old?

2010-02-08T12:21:00.000-08:00

It's Haley!

How did our girl go from this...

to this, already?

Our girl continues to defy us by growing up. Haley celebrated her 6 month birthday with a check-up at the doctor. She's topping the charts at over 18 pounds (80%) and 27 inches (90%). The Bug is a big girl! Even the doctor was amazed by her growth spurt in the last 3 months. Haley took the shots like a champ - just a few tears, but was quickly soothed and laughing at the nurse.

Haley's working very hard on sitting up by herself and rolling over. She loves to eat and play, but her favorite are baths. Here we are post-bath, sporting our very cute giraffe robe. Happy and clean...for a few minutes at least.

A Few Days In Haley's Life

2010-01-29T08:07:00.000-08:00

Hello, Blog - Haley here. I thought it was high time for me to show the readers what my life is like. Here are a few pictures of what I've been up to recently.

Daddy flies me around the house and I think it's the best. So much fun! It's even better when he puts me in the Bjorn while he vacuums. We LOVE to vacuum together!

Here I am spinning around in my doorway jumper. I haven't quite figured out how to bounce, but Daddy does a really good job. I look annoyed...no more pictures Mom, more bouncing Dad!

I like to eat! Sometimes I get kinda messy with my food. Mom and Dad don't feed me fast enough, so I have to help them by using my fingers to shove the food in.

Here I am hanging out in my highchair...it's a pretty sweet ride. Now I get to eat dinner at the table like Mom and Dad! I like the highchair best when I'm pantsless and can reach my toes. My toes are really neat and taste good!

Daaaang - I look SO cute! The pink skirt makes my tushy look particularly adorable. I've been dying to wear the jean jacket - I even asked Mom to roll my sleeves. I'm ready for the runway!

Thanks for visiting my blog. I'll make sure Mom posts pictures of me more often. She's slacking and my cuteness needs to be posted on the internet far more often.

Hugs, Haley

Thumbs Up Bug

2010-01-15T08:56:00.000-08:00

Month 5

2010-01-04T14:31:00.000-08:00

December 25, 2009

Dear Haley,

Your white tights are sitting on our coffee table, the pink toes dangling down. Three or four burp cloths are camped out in the living room. A tiny, singular sock sits on top of my book on my nightstand. Brightly colored plastic teething rings are nested on the kitchen table. My long sleeved t-shirts are stained with spit up and drool. You have left indelible prints throughout our small home in the last 5 months.

I know you - the cadence of your breath, the wrinkles in your thighs, the shape of your button nose, the softness of your skin, and your sweet scent are forever engraved into my brain. I can’t believe you won’t remember any of this, but I will remember it for both of us and try to tuck these memories away for you. If you take anything from these letters, please let it be that you are totally and completely, unconditionally and infinitely loved. You have filled my heart when I didn’t realize it was empty. Every part of me knows that I was meant to be your mom.

You continue to grow and develop (you can roll over and now eat rice cereal!) - all at a rate of speed I am wholly uncomfortable with. You have changed from our tiny newborn to our sweet baby girl, and it appears that you’re on your way to becoming a darling toddler, a charming young lady, and a beautiful woman. Everything changed on August 5, 2009; our home became messier, our schedules became busier, and our lives became more complicated but...
our lives became substantially more defined, more colorful and more full of love than ever imagined.

I am writing this letter early (on Christmas) - you are the greatest gift I could have ever been given. You are proof positive that prayers are answered. “I prayed for this child, and the Lord answered my prayer. The Lord gave me this child.” 1 Samuel 1:27

You are the sun, the moon and the stars in my sky.

Love,
Mama

The Greatest Sound On Earth

2009-12-28T10:40:00.000-08:00

Santa Baby

2009-12-22T07:13:00.000-08:00

Santa made time in his very busy schedule yesterday to stop by and wish the kiddos at daycare a Merry Christmas.

Grammy was able to join in the fun!

Christmas Cookies

2009-12-21T07:48:00.000-08:00

Chef-in-training Haley Lynn helped Mama make Christmas cookies this weekend. As a willing apprentice, she wanted to stir but instead "sang" me Christmas carols.

2009-12-16T11:53:00.001-08:00

Dear Tenant of Yellow Nursery,

Please be aware of the noise level coming from your "apartment", especially at 3:30 am. Your growling*, squeaking and squawking although adorable are not appreciated at such an early hour. Despite the noise ordinance violation you must be complimented on the musicality of said noises.

Thank you,
Management (aka Mama)

p.s. Management appreciates the early morning smiles and cuddles.

*Haley actually growled, like a puppy.

Month 4

2009-12-07T11:39:00.000-08:00

December 5, 2009

Dear Haley,

Exactly one year ago today I discovered you. I took one of several pregnancy tests that afternoon and with the development of that second pink line my heart swelled. I took the first test the afternoon of the 5th and waited until the morning of the 6th to tell your daddy. For a few hours the knowledge of your existence was mine. I waited until the next morning to tell Daddy for fear that I had dreamt it - I didn’t want to disappoint your dad or break my heart. But the next morning the test came back with the second pink line - bold and bright, and the most beautiful sight I had ever seen (until I laid eyes on you).

We celebrated Thanksgiving a few weeks ago (so much to be thankful for this year!) and you ‘helped’ me make pies for the celebration. I couldn’t help but think about my Gram and the pies she baked for the family - they were the things legends are made of. I have so many memories of time spent with her, ones that are so simple but so strong that they seem as though they happened only yesterday. Gram has been gone for many years and I still miss her very much. I so wish you two could have met and believe she smiles down upon you and would delight in her great-grandchildren. Gram was kind and loving; wise and strong; thoughtful and selfless; she possessed the absolute best qualities one could find in another person.

Grandmas are some of the most special people in the entire world and your own Grammy is no exception. I see so much of her mother in her - your Grammy is loving and kind; selfless and thoughtful; wise and strong. She’s also the most generous person I know - generous in the giving of her time, her talents and of herself. Your Grammy has doted on you since before you were born - you will have her unconditional love and support and friendship forever and ever.

You are the sun, the moon and stars in my sky.

Love,
Mama

4 Month Checkup

2009-12-07T11:37:00.000-08:00

The ladybug's current fighting weight is 14 lbs 3 oz (60th percentile). She's exactly 24 inches long (30th percentile) and her head is 16 1/4" around (60th percentile). This tells us that we have a short, chunky little girl with a big noggin. More room for brains, we say.

Snoozer Bug

2009-11-19T08:25:00.000-08:00

Halloween 2009

2009-11-11T08:19:00.000-08:00

Overall, it appears that Halloween bored Haley. She slept through both her daycare party and the Manies Halloween party. Notice the chubby leg sticking out of her pumpkin costume - its delicious!

By coincidence both Charlie and Haley dressed up as ducks - we Manies' love our poultry!

And later the party got really wild...Charlie sported a wig of pink pigtails!

Month 3

2009-11-05T07:21:00.000-08:00

November 5, 2009

Dear Haley,

This month your sweet personality has really started to shine. You coo and babble and squeal - all with either a gummy smile or pouty lip. Both are used liberally and with equal emphasis...like an exclamation point. Your smile takes up your entire face - wide and with an open mouth. Your pout goes from forehead to chin - your bottom lip curls down and your brow furrows. You’ve even started to use them in sequence; you squawk with a frown and when we come to you, you smile and wiggle. Sneaky little ladybug!

I came home from the grocery store one night and heard you ‘talking’ to your dad. When I walked up the stairs I was delighted to see that he had spread out a quilt on the kitchen floor and had you lying at his feet while he made dinner. I couldn’t have pictured a more perfect scene for this father and daughter duo. My heart skipped a beat watching my family, in that moment. I’ve watched other scenes of you two together and each time I thank God for putting both of you in my life.

Your dad is a special guy - don’t take that for granted. Remember this; especially as you turn into a teenager and think your dad is a huge dork (all teenage girls think their dad is a dork at some point in life). Before you were born I schemed up all kinds of Halloween costumes for you. Your dad acted like the Scrooge of Halloween and told me “she won’t know; she’ll be too little to dress up.” The week of Halloween arrives and your dad tells me he’s ordered you costume and “it’s awesome!” He picked out a duckling costume (with cape) and it was adorable. Coincidentally, your cousin Charlie was a duck too. We had our own little poultry farm!

Dads are amazing, mine certainly is and I can already tell you love yours just as much as I love mine. I have vivid memories of ‘dates’ to Winstead’s with my dad when I was a little girl. Your daddy makes you smile the biggest and laugh the loudest. He sings you silly songs and dances with you through the kitchen. He splashes you in the tub and rubs your fuzzy head. He even picked your name - I was told that under no uncertain terms could we name our daughter anything other than Haley. Fortunately, I liked the name..and I, under no uncertain terms, love the girl it belongs to.

You are the sun, the moon and stars in my sky.

Love,
Mama

Happy Halloween!

2009-11-02T07:40:00.000-08:00

Wonder Duck!

Technically, Haley is Ming Ming Duck from The Wonderpets. Karl picked out the costume and is VERY proud of himself. Prior to Haley's birth, Karl told me "don't dress her up, she won't even know it's Halloween." He was the Scrooge of Halloween. Then on the Wednesday before Halloween, Karl emails me a picture of the costume he's purchased. What? I had never heard of The Wonderpets (a tv show on Nick Jr.) and this is the description I received; "Ming Ming Duck is the Ameila Earhart of ducks." Well, if that didn't sell me...

Coincidentally, Charlie was also a duck. The Manies family likes their poultry! More pictures to come!

Tried Not To Be Scared...

2009-10-30T08:50:00.000-07:00

of Haley's cuteness! She sported her skeleton onesie to daycare today and this afternoon will be a pumpkin. She has two (!) more costumes for tomorrow.

Cleaning House

2009-10-28T14:13:00.000-07:00

I've decided to change the look of our blog. Enjoy!

Just Because

2009-10-26T08:38:00.000-07:00

New photos of Ladybug...just because she's cute. Haley continues to grow like a weed and we continue to fall deeper in love with her.

Cousin Meagan gifted this adorable tutu number to Haley before she was born, and I have waited patiently for Bug to fit in it. That day finally arrived! However, she was less than thrilled with Mom's amateur photoshoot.

Karl wore the Baby Bjorn around the house one night and Haley loved it. I think Karl has a better appreciation of what it's like to be pregnant. Hauling petite Haley around made his back hurt after just 15 minutes.

A close up of our ridiculously, ridiculously good looking baby while in the Bjorn. She's modeling her Baby Bird face - almost as good as Blue Steel ala Zoolander.

2 Month Check Up

2009-10-16T12:48:00.000-07:00

The littelest bug went in for her 2 month check up recently. She was a champ - putting on quite the show for the doctor and nurses. Lots of smiles and cooing. And then came the shots...oh boy. There is no way to adequately describe the horror that came over Haley's face. My heart broke a bit that day, but fortunately a bottle and plenty of cuddles cured Haley's ouchies. The Bug tipped the scales at 10.8 lbs; a gain of almost 3 pounds since birth!

Month 2

2009-10-09T09:54:00.000-07:00

September 30, 2009

Dear Haley,

How is possible that you’re already two months old? I always though parents that said “time flies” were hokey. I’ve officially joined the hokey mom club because it seems as though time is racing by at warp speed. I have trouble remembering my life before you entered it; it seems as though you’ve always been a part of it.

You continue to grow sweeter each day and are starting to show more of your personality. Your first smiles lit up our world this month - gummy and beautiful. Your smile takes up your whole face from chin to brow; and recently you’ve added a squeal of delight to accompany. Such joy!

You’ve started to be aware of things around you - us, your puppies, and other children. We often wonder what you must think of this brave new world of yours. Each day your dad and I discover some new ability of yours and in typical new parent fashion believe you to be the most intelligent, most advanced, and most beautiful baby on the face of the earth.

You’ve started daycare and I have gone back to work. I dreaded this moment and you rewarded me with fewer middle of the night wake-up calls. Thank you! However groggy I may be in the morning, I secretly relish those hushed 1 am feedings. Just the two of us (with the occasional dog) snuggled together in your cozy cocoon of a room. The world is still asleep, but we’re tucked in under blankets and swaying in your rocking chair. Those are delicious moments I wouldn’t trade for anything.

You are the sun, the moon and stars in my sky.

Love,
Mama

Birthday Wishes

2009-10-05T06:54:00.000-07:00

Haley wishes her Papa Manies a very happy birthday!

Better Late Than Never - Letter to Haley: Month One

2009-10-01T08:46:00.001-07:00

I decided to write a letter to Haley each month of her life. I want to document the minutiae of her life, to savor each moment. I hesitated to post my letters, but decided to share them with whomever may read this site. I wrote this letter several weeks ago...

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September 10, 2009

Dear Haley,

You have already been in our lives for one whole month. To me, you have been in my life for more than 10 months, but I am getting to know you in a whole new fashion. You are the sweetest girl one could ever imagine. Your dad and I anticipated sleepless nights spent rocking a fussy baby, and yet you have been an easy going baby from the start. We were concerned about how the dogs would react to having a new (noisy) person in the house and they couldn't have surprised us more. Barley and Chloe love you! Chloe has taken the role of protector, while Barley has taken the role of babysitter (he wants to be near you and/or sniffing you).

We've learned that you love to be held - it almost instantaneously calms you down. We've learned that you are a noisy girl - you love to 'talk' to us in your sweet voice. We've learned that you like to be cozy and snuggled - you curl yourself into a ball when you sleep. We've learned that you don't mind loud noises - especially ones coming from your puppy dogs. We've learned that our hearts grew 10,000 fold with your arrival into the world.

I was so nervous to meet you once the big day finally arrived. Once we arrived at the hospital time couldn't move fast enough. I wanted to know what (who) you looked like. I had spent 39 long weeks getting to know you - you liked to kick and move and often had the hiccups - I simply couldn't wait any longer to meet you. I heard one of the doctors exclaim "she's perfect!" and the tears started rolling down my cheeks. They held you up so I could see you and couldn't agree more - you were (are) indeed perfect. Then I heard you cry and knew that you were healthy, that my prayers had been answered. (Actually, my prayers had been answered the day I found out I was pregnant.)

I have so enjoyed being at home with you these last few weeks and wish we could be together like this forever. I feel as though I've gotten to know not only you, but myself too. Thank you for opening my heart up - I love you and your dad more than I thought possible. You are the sun and moon and stars in my sky.

Love,
Mama

First Day

2009-09-28T10:20:00.000-07:00

Look who's ready for her first day of daycare! She flashed this adorable half smile (which is something her father does) as we packed her into the car seat. I have no doubt she's having a blast; we can't wait to hear all about her day.

Busy Bee

2009-09-25T10:43:00.000-07:00

Haley's been a busy girl the last few weeks. She changes every day - it's hard to believe that she's 7 weeks old already. Where has the time gone?

Here she is snoozing with Daddy on a Saturday morning. I'm not sure who makes more noise - Daddy snoring or Haley with her funny snorts and snuffles.

Modeling one of her many cute outfits. She's ridiculously, ridiculously

good looking (name that movie).

Here she is being a happy girl.

Haley starts daycare on Monday while I head back to work. I have the feeling that Mommy will be the one with tears in her eyes while Haley enjoys meeting her new friends.

Very Happy Girl

2009-09-21T17:06:00.000-07:00

Just in time for me to return to work the girl decides to become even cuter. She cracked these smiles while Barley was kissing her toes.

Crazy Baby

2009-09-15T06:41:00.000-07:00

Enough said...

Firsts

2009-08-29T08:45:00.000-07:00

Haley continues to grow like a weed - she's already 5 weeks old! The little lady has had a plethora of visitors, which means Mom and Dad have had lots of much appreciated help.

We've enjoyed the nice weather and have taken Haley to a variety of spots though the KC area. She visited the Overland Park Arboretum and Deanna Rose Farmstead all in one weekend. Although she slept though both visits, we think she really enjoyed the outdoors :O) We discovered that she's quite a shopper too. Target, Sam's Club and Oak Park Mall have all been graced with Haley's presence as well. I've found that no matter where we go people comment on Haley's cuteness...not that I'm biased, but I couldn't agree more!

I took Haley to get some newborn pictures taken. Things started off well, but quickly went south...she became very angry (see picture). We managed to snap a few cute photos, although a bit Glamour Shot-esqe.

Uncle Ryan, Aunt Paige and Cousin Charlie paid a visit to Casa Schweigel. Charlie is such a big boy - he's sitting up and eating baby food! I keep telling him that he needs to teach Haley his tricks, but he didn't seem particularly interested in anything other than eating and making lots of noise.

Karl and I enjoyed our first date night sans baby last weekend. We enjoyed an uninterrupted and delicious dinner at Taste, but we quickly missed Haley. Karl and I are totally smitten with our little girl. We can't imagine our lives without her.

The Business of Being Born

2009-08-12T07:31:00.000-07:00

Haley is one week old today! Karl and I are settling in to parenthood...with lots of diapers, feedings and sleepless nights (and days). And more love for our little girl than we ever could have imagined.

A few pictures from the 7 days...fresh from the oven to today. (Headband is compliments of cousin Meagan)

She's Here!

2009-08-08T13:31:00.000-07:00

Karl and I are happy to announce the arrival of our daughter, Haley Lynn Schweigel. She arrived on Wednesday, August 5th at 12:29 pm. Haley weighed in at 7 pounds 10 ounces and is 19 inches long. She's gorgeous and healthy with a head of dark hair and chubby cheeks.

We want to thank each and everyone of our family members and friends. Karl, Haley and I have been overwhelmed with your love and support.

Here She Comes!

2009-08-04T07:56:00.000-07:00

We've hit week 39 and as of tomorrow our little girl will no longer be compared to fruits or veggies. Our c-section is scheduled for tomorrow afternoon and we couldn't be more excited. I'm dying to know what Haley looks like and if she really does have hair (the ultrasound tech thinks she might, but I'm skeptical).

Our trusty internet sources tell us that Haley is the size of a mini watermelon. I believe it...it looks like I swallowed a mini watermelon. Check out that belly! It's encroaching my desk space.

Pictures of Haley will be posted. We can't wait for everyone to meet her!

Life Can Be Suprising

2009-07-22T08:06:00.000-07:00

Life in the Schweigel/Manies household has been a whirlwind the last few weeks. We have to give a shout out to The Big Man Upstairs because he has blessed us beyond words.

A few weeks ago Karl was given the unfortunate news of an immediate lay off from PKD...it was unexpected to say the least. However, Karl hit the ground running and two days later landed a job. I am SO very proud of him for taking this in stride and with such a positive attitude. He started his new job this Monday and seems to be settling in nicely.

As of yesterday, we have a full-term baby! This means Haley could arrive safely on the scene at any time. In fact, we know she'll be in our arms two weeks from today! Apparently, Haley is too comfy in her current breech position to turn herself around. So, we're scheduled for a c-section on August 5th. It's simultaneously amazing and terrifying to know her birthday...definitely more on the amazing side. Karl and I can't believe we'll be holding our girl in 15 days.

At 37 weeks she should measure 19 inches from heel to head (about as long as a stalk of Swiss Chard) and weigh approximately 6 1/2 lbs. However, we know from our last ultrasound that Haley may be topping the charts at just over 7 lbs...I've started referring to her as the Butterball Baby.

Less Than A Month

2009-07-15T08:01:00.000-07:00

We've hit 36 weeks, which means Haley will be considered full-term as of next Tuesday. Where have the last 8 months gone?! Our trusty internet sources tell us that Haley is the size of a Crenshaw Melon (never heard of this) - she should be weighing almost 6 pounds and is approximately 18 1/2 inches long.

I had the first of my weekly doctor's appointments on Monday and Dr. Newby wasn't able to tell if Haley had flipped head down, so she ordered a sonogram. As it turns out the little stinker is in what they call a Frank Breech position...she's tucked in there like a yogi.

We also discovered that Haley is a bit of a chunk for her age - she's weighing in at approximately 6 lbs 12 oz. If she were to gain the approximate 1/2 lb per week, we could be looking at a BIG girl. The most surprisingly finding was that Haley has some hair...who would have thought? I have been convinced this entire time that she would be a baldy.

Last Saturday I was treated to the most amazing baby shower EVER! Aunt Cyndi (aka Mabel Stewart, Martha's much more friendly and non-convict cousin) and Meg hostessed a family baby shower for Haley and me. The ladies made the day so incredibly special and memorable - everything from the food to the decorations were fantastic. Haley certainly was showered with gifts and Meg is determined to make Haley a girly girl. There is the sweetest tutu hanging in the nursery - I can't wait to see Haley in it! I'll post pics from the party soon!

You've Got To Be Kidding?!

2009-07-07T12:48:00.000-07:00

We are down to 5 weeks until Haley is on the scene...that is unbelievable to Karl and me. We think we're ready (is anyone really ready for their 1st kid?) and continue to watch the days fly by.

Our trusty internet sources tell us that Haley is weighing in at 5 1/4 lbs and is approximately 18 inches long. She is comparable to the heft of a honeydew melon. (Side note: where in the world do you find a 5 lb honeydew melon? Not in any grocery stores around Olathe.)

Weekly doctor appointments start next week. Dr. Newby thinks Haley has flipped around, but will be able to give me a more definitive answer at next week's appointment. Fingers are crossed that Babycakes is head down.

2009-06-30T13:41:00.000-07:00

At 34 weeks we're still in the tropical fruit section of our pregnancy. Haley is weighing in at approximately 4 3/4 pounds and is almost 18 inches long. She is comparable to a cantaloupe...I'm not sure I've ever seen a cantaloupe that big before.

Haley and I received a clean bill of health at our doctor's appointment earlier this week. I asked Dr. Newby if she guesstimates the weight of her patients babies. She thinks that I'm on track to deliver an 8 pounder...wow! Of course, the doctor was quick to say that her estimation is just that...and I shouldn't get too hung up on the size. Karl and I continue to be thankful for a healthy pregnancy.

Haley and I have had two baby showers in just 5 days time! The first was thrown by my best friend Stacey and her mom Kathy. To say Haley and I were spoiled would be an understatement. Everything from the decor to the food was amazing - Stacey and Kathy put so much work into everything. Haley and I had a great time! I continue to believe Karl's nesting instinct is stronger than mine. After I showed him all of our loot he immediately wanted to wash all the clothes and put together those items requiring assembly.

The second was hosted by several co-workers. I was treated to lunch at Grand Street Cafe and again, was spoiled rotten.

It's amazing to know how many people are excited to meet Haley. Karl and I are incredibly blessed to have such amazing friends, family and co-workers.

Who lives in a pineapple under the sea?

2009-06-23T07:34:00.000-07:00

At 33 weeks Haley weighs in at over 4 pounds and is more than 17 inches in length. She is the approximate heft of a pineapple. When I read that all I could think of was SpongeBob Square Pants and his house in Bikini Bottom.

We're continuing to count down the weeks until Haley's arrival - t-minus 7 and counting! I think Karl's nesting instinct is stronger than mine. Last night he bought and assembled shelves for her closet. He's such a good dad! For Father's Day, Haley gave Karl a cute I Love Daddy bib...that will come in handy for all those late night feedings he'll tackle:O) Barley and Chloe made him a special breakfast, with my assistance. We all love him so much!

Last weekend we attended our birthing class, which was a giant disappointment to say the least. Karl and I both think that the instructor could make for a great Saturday Night Live skit. We learned that Karl's biggest and most important job as a labor coach is to have the car gassed up and ready to go. That was her biggest piece of advice...and sadly we paid $65 for that bit of knowledge. Fortunately, I've been doing a lot of reading and Karl has been absorbing my random bits of knowledge I read aloud to him. Also, my best friend Stacey and sister-in-law Paige have been valuable resources of baby knowledge - they graciously answer all of my (ridiculous) questions.

I have to give a special shout out to Karl. He suprised me last night with a new wardrobe of maternity clothes. For a guy that claims to hate shopping, he picked out a bunch of really cute things. Thanks Babes, you're the greatest!

32 Weeks

2009-06-15T11:52:00.000-07:00

Haley has grown into a jicama at week 32 (another very random veggie reference). She weighs 3 3/4 pounds and is approximately 16 3/4 inches long. Our trusty internet resources tell us that at this gestational age babies have toenails and may be sporting some hair on their noggin.

Our latest doctor's appointment went off without a hitch. Everything looks great on both the mom and baby fronts.

We want to wish Paige a belated Happy Birthday! Barley, Chloe, Karl, Haley and I are wishing her another fantastic year and all the chocolate she can handle.

Wow!

2009-06-12T11:59:00.000-07:00

Karl and I were spoiled rotten for our anniversary. Mom and Dad generously gave us a dinner out - yum! Pete and Nancy surprised us with a digital video camera. I told Karl to be on his best behavior - I can get video evidence and post it on the web! (I really want to capture his bed-hogging, which he vehemently denies.)

I gave Karl a hardwood floor vacuum. I don't know if I've ever seen him so excited over a gift (who gets excited over a vacuum?). Karl's folks recently showed me some video of Karl as a little one and there was an extended portion of the video showing Karl "playing" with a broom and vacuum. Seeing that explained SO much to me.

Karl surprised me by removing the carpet from our stairs and refinishing them. For an uber pregnant wife with a serious nesting instinct, this is an amazing gift.

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2009-06-10T08:20:00.000-07:00

Not much to report on the baby front this week. We've hit 31 weeks and it seems like the finish line is in sight. Our reliable internet sources tell us that Haley is weighing in at 3.3 pounds and is 16 inches long; approximately the weight of 4 navel oranges. We understand that she's starting to fill out with baby fat and is headed for a major growth spurt in the coming weeks. So, you're telling me my belly will get bigger?! That's possible?

Karl had is first (and perhaps only) taste of Babies R Us last week. He was a champ! Next week Karl and I take our birthing class. Poor Karl doesn't seem excited about watching a video of a live birth.

Today is Karl and my third anniversary. It's hard to believe that we've been married for 3 years and have a little one on the way. I wouldn't want to do this with anyone else but Karl, he's an amazing husband.

Little Miss Chubby Cheeks

2009-06-01T10:31:00.000-07:00

Karl and I and both sets of grandparents were treated to a sneak peek of Haley last Friday. Babycakes was active all day long, so I was hopeful she'd give us a show during our 3D ultrasound, however in true baby fashion she slept the entire time. We were still able to get some good images of her face - her chubby cheeks are too cute! I think we even managed to see a smile.

(I apologize for the quality of the photo...I don't have access to a scanner.)

We've made it to 30 weeks...I simply cannot believe it. The clock continues to tick and in 10 weeks our girl will be here! Our trusty internet sources tell us that Haley is weighing in at almost 3 pounds and is 15.7 inches long; about the size of a cabbage. Haley and I received a clean bill of health at the doctor's today. She's still breech, but Dr. Newby assures me that most babies turn around on their own in the next few weeks - keep your fingers crossed!

Where Did They Go?

2009-05-27T07:50:00.000-07:00

My feet are barely visible these days. Mom treated my toes to a pedicure over the weekend - heavenly! I think pedicures should be subsidized by the government and mandatory for all pregnant women. Abstaining from alcohol hasn't been difficult while pregnant, with the exception of going to eat Mexican food. I would LOVE a margarita...as it happens, my toe nail polish color is Strawberry Margarita. Coincidence?

The Nursery

2009-05-27T07:33:00.000-07:00

The nursery is complete!

Karl and Grandpa Pete put in new flooring and a ceiling fan. The furniture is in place, bedding washed and clothes put in drawers. Now we need Miss Haley to show up...in 11 weeks (no early bird baby please). We went with an animal theme, in an effort to avoid too much pink. We felt it would be pink overload if her room was Pepto colored. Her bookshelf is starting to fill up with my childhood favorites - if she's anything like her mom, she'll be an avid reader.

The Crib/Bedding

The Reading Corner

The cushions for the glider are a work in progress, the fabric is too cute! For some reason everyone thinks that the books I've picked out are too advanced for a baby. You mean she won't be reading The Adventures of Tom Sawyer and Huckleberry Finn at a few months old?

The Artwork

The giraffee print hung in baby Karl's room, it was a gift from Nancy's former co-workers in Buffalo, NY.

The Roaming Gnome

No baby's room is complete without one.

Memorable Weekend

2009-05-26T12:10:00.000-07:00

Three-day weekends should be mandatory; Karl and I were able to get so much done, as well as enjoy ourselves. The biggest accomplishment is that the nursery is done - yahoo!

We kicked off our weekend with more adventures in babysitting. Charlie was a champ, per usual. He seems to think his aunt is a dork because she kept giving him raspberries on his tummy.

Karl continues his streak as the baby whisperer. He had Charlie smiling and laughing.

Lastly, we enjoyed Celebration at The Station with a huge group of family and friends. The fireworks were awesome and Haley seemed to like them in utero. The kicks came fast and furious once the fireworks started.

We're at 29 weeks and Haley is approximately 15 inches long and weighs 2 1/2" pounds; much like a butternut squash. I'm feeling all 15 inches and 2 1/2 pounds - my feet are quickly disappearing from my view!

Let the Countdown Begin!

2009-05-18T08:59:00.000-07:00

Holy Cow, we are officially members of the 3rd trimester! T-minus 84 days and counting. Fingers (and toes) are crossed that Haley stays put until her due date - we want her fully cooked.

Per our trusty internet sources, Haley is the size of a Chinese Cabbage. This means she's weighing in at 2.5 pounds and is 14.8 inches long. The girl continues to grow and boy do I know it!

Still feeling good, but starting to get uncomfortable and most definitely noticing the baby. She moves constantly and the kicks/punches are starting to get stronger. I enjoyed a pre-natal massage last week and it was 90 minutes of bliss. I tried to convince the massage therapist to move in to our house, but oddly enough she didn't take me up on the offer. I'm thankful to be pregnant during the spring and summer - dresses, skirts and flip-flops have become my wardrobe staples.

Karl and I are going to tackle the nursery over Memorial Day weekend. In true Dad fashion, Karl thinks the carpet needs to go and new flooring should be put down. Once that's done we can hang things on the walls and really make it cute. Pictures to come soon!

13 Weeks Left

2009-05-12T09:15:00.000-07:00

Only 13 weeks to go before Haley shows up on the scene - wow! According to our trusty internet sources Haley is the size of a head of cauliflower; weighing in at 2 lbs and nearly 14 1/2 inches long. It's hard to imagine that she'll continue to pack on the pounds in the coming weeks.

Nothing much to report for the week, it's been uneventful. I am excited to report that I'm getting a pre-natal massage tonight. As George from Seinfeld once said, "Serenity now!"

Time Flies

2009-05-05T11:40:00.000-07:00

Time is flying by - I can't believe we're already at 26 weeks. In a few more short weeks we'll be in the 3rd trimester.

Our trusty internet sources tell us that Haley is as tall as an English Hothouse Cucumber...very specific. This means she's about 14 inches long from head to heel and weighs in at 1 2/3 lbs.

Haley continues to move around a lot, which is amazing - slightly less amazing at 3 am, but a blessing none the less. Karl's gotten to feel her squirming around as well and I'm pretty sure Barley the Wonderhound felt it over the weekend. He was snuggling with me when she kicked - he looked at my belly very strangely after that.

The doctor tells me I'm healthy - no anemia, high blood pressure or diabetes. Woo! I feel lucky to have such an easy going pregnancy so far (knocking on wood). I wonder if this means that Haley's going to give us a run for our money when she arrives. Beginning in June I'll be visiting the doctor every two weeks...Dr. Newby telling me that made me realize that Haley really will be here before we know it.

We've found our daycare provider - what a relief! Sheri runs a small daycare out of her home and only has three infants (under 18 months) in her care at a time. Currently, Haley will be her only full-time baby, which means the little bean will get lots of snuggles.

P.S. Charlie continues to be the cutest nephew on the block. I had the pleasure of co-babysitting with the grandparents a few weekends ago. We put him in his bouncy chair while we ate and Charlie decided to rip a number of very loud man-sized toots and flash us a darling smile after each one - he's such a boy! How come baby toots are so ridiculously cute?

25 Weeks Down, 15 To Go

2009-04-28T08:44:00.000-07:00

Our trusty internet sources tell us that Haley is weighing in at approximately 1 1/2 pounds and is about 13 1/2 inches long. She's the weight of an average rutabaga...I'm not sure I would know what an average rutabaga (or a rutabaga, in general) would look like. I don't think I've ever eaten rutabaga...how does one cook it?

She's starting to pack on the baby fat and sprout some hair. Karl is hopeful that Haley is born with some hair on his head. I had to break the news to him that I was a baldy for 2 years. Bald is beautiful!

Haley continues to move and squirm on a very regular basis. I think she takes a secret joy in hitting my bladder in the middle of the night. She's going to be grounded the moment she comes out :O)

I passed the glucose test (yay!) and have a doctor's appointment later this week. We've signed up for our childbirth class and are quickly approaching the 3rd trimester. It's going by so fast!

Dear Haley,

2009-04-27T11:39:00.001-07:00

Babycakes, you have an awesome dad. The other night I was changing our bed sheets while your dad was in the kitchen.

"Can you make me some orange juice please? Fresh squeezed if possible," I hollered from the bedroom, knowing full well we didn't have oj in the fridge or oranges anywhere in the house.

"We don't have orange juice Kara," Karl responded from the kitchen.

"I know, but a girl and her pregnant belly can dream."

The next thing I know your dad hands me glass of grapefruit juice...fresh squeezed. I don't know if I've tasted anything better in the 24 weeks I've been pregnant with you.

Love,
Mama

Tall as an ear of corn

2009-04-22T07:52:00.000-07:00

We've hit week 24...16 weeks to go. Haley is just over 1 pound in weight - according to our trusty internet sources she packed on nearly 1/4 pound since last week. Wow! She's also the length of an ear of corn. The little girl just keeps growing!

The little lady has also decided that it's fun to wake Mom up at 4 am to dance around her belly. I think Haley is going to be a dancer or soccer player - she can kick! We're going to get another view of her in a few weeks with a 3-D ultrasound. Johnson County Ultrasound knows how to appeal to its target JoCo market; 5 guests are allowed to come with me (both sets of grandparents and Karl) to watch the ultrasound on a big screen while enjoying snacks and drinks.

The nursery is coming together slowly but surely. Pictures will be posted soon!

Baby Mango

2009-04-15T13:47:00.000-07:00

We're 23 weeks and our internet sources tell us that Haley weighs just over one pound is over 11 inches in length - akin to a large mango. Our little girl continues to grow!

Karl and I had a wonderful Easter - baby Haley reaped the rewards and was spoiled with all kinds of cute things. Our families are wonderfully generous - thank you all! It's hard to believe that next Easter we'll have an 8 month old.

We're headed to Omaha this weekend with Nana and Papa Manies, our good friends Stacey and Jake and their cutie, Ryan. We're going to the zoo, which is amazing. It'll be nice to get away for a weekend. Pictures to come!

Baby Roo

2009-04-06T12:37:00.000-07:00

Karl and I are convinced this little girl is part kangaroo. Each sonogram we've had Karl and I have watched in astonishment as Haley wiggled, kicked and bounced around. Now, I'm starting to feel those kicks. Each time I hold my hand to my belly in the hopes of feeling a kick from the outside, she decides to settle down. I get the feeling that Haley is going to give us a run for our money.

We've reached 22 weeks and according to our trusty internet sources Haley is approximately 11 inches long and nearly one pound...about the size of a spaghetti squash.

Drumroll Please!

2009-04-06T07:54:00.000-07:00

We're thrilled to announce...

we're having a....

GIRL!

Our ultrasound was on Friday and I was a nervous wreck! I desperately wanted to know the gender of the baby and was fearful that he/she wouldn't cooperate. As I predicted, Babycakes played hard to get. She moved and kicked each time the technician got close to telling us. Just as the technician got to the right position, the baby put her hand between her legs. After some prodding and poking we finally saw the girl parts.

Karl and I are over the moon - it's such a relief to say 'she' and 'her' instead of 'it.' As for her name, we are spilling the beans early.

Haley Lynn Schweigel

Haley is the name Karl has had picked out for years. Lynn is both our mother's middle names - the coincidence was too good to be true. We can't wait to meet her and the color pink has already started to invade our house.

Dream Analysis

2009-04-02T08:04:00.000-07:00

I've been having weird, bizarre dreams since falling pregnant. Usually I don't have a vivid recollection of the dreams, however last night's dream stuck with me. I wonder if it's telling me something...

Bare with me, because it is unusual. Weird enough for Karl to question my sanity. In my dream I was with our baby and the baby (like all other babies) was in plastic casing, like you might find a doll at a toy store (first sign of weirdness). Anyhow, our baby had pink earrings and a necklace on (weirdness again). I was disappointed because Karl wasn't with me and now I knew we were having a girl. There was a lady next to me - a nurse or doctor maybe - told me that I couldn't be sure. We argued for awhile and when I picked the baby up its diaper fell off and lo and behold, the baby most definitely wasn't a girl. The mysterious lady I earlier argued with told me that the earrings and necklace were for show...there to trick us.

I can't begin to explain what this dream means, other than I might be a bit nuts. We'll find out what we're having tomorrow...we can't wait!!

21 Weeks

2009-03-30T14:05:00.000-07:00

We've surpassed the halfway mark and have been pregnant for more days than we have left...the downhill slide has begun! Our trusty internet sources tell us that at 21 weeks, the baby is the length of a carrot and approximately 3/4 of a pound. I heard that Karl had strawberry blond hair as a baby (sort of a carrot top, right?) - I'm hoping our little one picks up that genetic trait. It would be so cute!

We're anxiously awaiting for 10 am this Friday to arrive. We'll find out whether little Charlie gets a girl cousin or a boy cousin! The families are divided - the Manies family is rooting for a girl, while the Schweigel family seems to be pulling for a boy. Karl and I will be thrilled either way.

The crib and dresser have been assembled thanks to Karl's handiwork and Chloe's help. She managed to sit on every piece of wood and/or each tool just as we would need them. So helpful! Barley chose to supervise the construction from the doorway. Now we just need a sweet little baby to put in the crib!

We've had a lot of questions about the dogs and how we think they'll react to the baby. Barley is a baby lover - he particularly likes to smell them, it's weirdly cute. Chloe is a bit more unsure of little ones and keeps a watchful eye on them from a safe distance. Karl and I have no doubt that both Barley and Chloe will make fast friends with the baby and serve as excellent babysitters.